FLR Vacation

[EddieDavidson]

Most stories about Female led relationships paint the women as cruel sex fiends who want to fuck anyone but their husbands. They often include blackmail or hypnosis because many men need to believe that normal men would never choose to be submissive and place their partner on a pedastal.

No lasting FLR could work that way. Most FLR in real life that I've encountered were the man's idea. Submission is not weakness or a mental illness. It's difficult for me as a non-vegan to imagine someone who won't eat delicious bacon. It might be difficult for a vegan to imagine someone who would.

The same is true for naturaly dominant people. They have a hard time believing someone would get off pleasing someone else. I knew a true submissive (IMHO) who fantasized about waking up everyday knowing what she was expected to do. She saw choices not as a plus but a bit of a chore.

She didn't want to decide what was for dinner or where we go to eat. She'd rather go some place that make sme happy, safe in the knowledge that Id choose some place she'd probably like.

What seems like a priveledge to me (choice) can seem like a chore or obligation to her.

I say all this because for a while I thought I'd do something that I've never seen before - write a Female Led Relationship story that is not a clusterfuck of dsyfunctional co-dependency.

Femdom and Female Led Relationships are not necesarily synonyms. Cuckold rleationships may a flavor of FLR, but usually they are not as they are portrayed in stories.

The woman delighting in control over her husband's orgasms still usually wants him to have them. She just wants him to want them badly instead of taking them for granted.

She's not trying to erase who he is. She's trying to polish him to be the man that she wants him to be.

Just like being gay isn't a choice, being submissive is a part of who some people are and they like it.

Just like a gay couple can walk around in public without wearing "Gay" rainbow t-shirts and acting like catty stereotypes who flaunt their sexuality, they may also not be ashamed of being gay. The stigma is real. That may not stop them from being authentically who they are and in love, just that they may be tone down their behavior the same way a straight couple doesn't have to flaunt their sexuality in public.,

It's that way in an FLR. The man can be polite and defer, he can open doors, and put his wife on a pedastel as he dotes over her without losing or behaving as he would behind closed doors.

In most FLRs, it may have a little flavor of something else, but essentially whatever you think the men would traditionally do, the woman does, and the men take care of things that women traditionally do. My test for an authentic FLR would be "Could you swap out the story with a man as the ehad of household and it still work the same?" = yes is the goal.

In the stories, the women are cruel for no real reason. If you were to swap out a man as head of the household in most cuckold stories, you'd probably say he was a narcisstic asshole that took his submissive for granted.

So, what if I wrote what I believe is a loving family that just happens to believe that the women of the family need to be placed on a pedastal, empowered, not spoken over or patronized? What if they didn't see service as a negative or a punishment but just as there was "Women's work" in 1950s mental hygene films that said men needed leisure time but girls should focus on learning new skills and crafting.


I don't have a title yet, other than the working title - FLR Vacation. I imagined what it would be like for a FLR couple to go on vacation.. The head of household invites her sister and their family along beause she is considering a FLR.

In the course of the story, I keep it softcore. it's not over the top hanging them by their balls. There can be twists and turns that keep you interested in an ENM/CFNM way but its a loving family taht has harmony .

In a 50/50 relationship, it's actually hard to get what you want. You almost always end up comprimising. In an 80/20, as long as you know the bills are paid, funds are managed and you trust your partner to make good choices for you - what if not everything needs to be an argument?

Would that interest anyone> or would you rather a story about two giant blonde girls that dominate their cousin and tease him? That was my other idea. The last time Troy saw his cousins they were short and fat, pudgy little fuckers. They have gigantism and they seem like adult porn stars because they have huge tits and ass, and their hormones are going wild. I could give some thought to more of that.

[tim409]

As a male who has always felt women and girls were superior to us males, (that does not mean we should be slaves to them) and when I read "The Natural Superiority of Women" in 7th grade, I knew I was right. This book, written by a male) showed how women are superior in about 65% of the ways it talked about. Women and males are equal in another 25% and males are superior in about 10% but saddly, some of those ways are nothing to brag about such as mistreating women and kids (these are the types I think women should be able to use the male's nuts to show who is boss. In fact, I was in a large shopping mall around Christmas on year and a couple went by me and I noticed she was wearing a shirt that had "his TESTICLES belong to ME. written on it. His shirt said "My TESTICLES belong to HER.

I tried to stop them to ask about it but it was too late. I wanted to suggest that she gives lessons and I wished she could teach girls in 7th grade on how to have males by their balls.

I am not into femdom much but I do like it when women and even girls know how to defend themselves using our balls, the great equalizer. I think this is why I like pure CFNM where only the males are naked and the girls are modestly dressed. It is after all how I grew up.

That book was last updated in 1999 and since than, women have been surpassing most males left and right and leaving us in the dust. Of course there are exceptions both ways but oddly enough, one of the reasons males are the weaker sex is our own BALLS. Another reason is that we think with the head in our cocks which gives women and girls all the advantages I would love to see that book updated and taught in every school in the nation but most males would not have the balls to accept it even though having a FLR would be good for everyone and recognizing that the female is the superior gender would be good for everyone because this macho stuff is killing the males since about 90% of the prison population are males even though there are fewer of us and a recent new article said that one state was about to execute their first female in a couple hundred years while in that time, they have executed about 380 males and some think that 10 times that number of males deserved it.

Maybe if we males accepted it, it would be better for all so YES Eddie, I for one would love to see stories on FLR and even Female superior stories but not especially femdom or strong punishment of our genitals as I am not into CBT although I do not mind women and girls using them to control errant males. After all, when she has us by the balls....