Wife’s first sph

[NickTwisp]

As I've noted before, I participated in open communal showers both at summer Boy Scout camp and in Junior & Senior years on the track team. Openly staring at another guy was not cool and remarking about the size of his penis would have gotten a guy called a word I don't want to say on here.

That said, we all certainly looked & mentally compared. By the time I was 16 on the track team I considered myself about average, perhaps slightly below. My best buddy David is definitely larger but still no 7.5 inches erect (in his case I know).

My current co-worker, Jeremy, whom I've seen naked in the staff changing room is slightly larger than me. The two showers in there are cubicles with privacy curtains, however, we sometimes are naked before entering the enclosure.

[RaccoonBatteryStaple]

I remember the time one of my classmates called me out for being small in the locker room when I was in junior high. I'd peeked at the other boys enough to know he was probably right -- without question I was one of the least developed when this took place.

Ouch! At that age in those formative years it must’ve been rough. I know the feeling of those changing room days because I’ve definitely always considered myself a grow’er not a show’er!

Yeah. I would have been late 13 or very early 14 when this happened. Almost all the other boys had noticeable pubes but I hadn't gotten my first wisps yet or anything. I was already teased and bullied for my weight and glasses and other things, so when it happened there was a level where it actually felt normal for them to target my penis when the opportunity came, like why wouldn't they tease me about it?

So when everyone decided the show was over and I was able to retreat to my locker, I remember looking down at myself as I drew up my briefs and thinking the other boys were just drawing attention to the truth because I really was smaller than them.

Were you able to get through changing in the locker room without comment?

[RaccoonBatteryStaple]

Humiliation can be an "interesting" feeling. Not always desirable at the time, but arousing later.

The word I would use is "intense". And agreed, in the moment you don't really like it, but later...

[JH1908]

Humiliation can be an "interesting" feeling. Not always desirable at the time, but arousing later.

The word I would use is "intense". And agreed, in the moment you don't really like it, but later...

Couldn’t agree more

[RaccoonBatteryStaple]

Humiliation can be an "interesting" feeling. Not always desirable at the time, but arousing later.

The word I would use is "intense". And agreed, in the moment you don't really like it, but later...

Couldn’t agree more

Thinking about it now, does part of you wish she'd been more explicit, or shared a little more about you?

I know after my junior high locker room incident I thought quite a bit about what might have happened if one of the other boys hadn't mercifully broken things up. I was on my way to being backed into a corner, and only about half the locker room got the chance to review my equipment so it could have gone a fair amount farther. And, too, I've always wondered if there might have been a tipping point where the attention would cause me to pop a boner in front of them.

That would have been the ultimate humiliation. But even then, there would be that feeling of liberation from them all knowing how that looked on me...