Intentionally Creating an ENF or ENM Situation and Pretending It Wasn't Planned and Acting Humiliated
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Intentionally Creating an ENF or ENM Situation and Pretending It Wasn't Planned and Acting Humiliated
I'm curious whether I am alone in this.
I was once IRL walked in on when I was totally nude and was completely humiliated by the experience.
A couple of years later, as harmful as the experience had been to my psyche, I began to masturbate to the memory of my own naked humiliation.
So a year after that I determined to purposely create a scenario where I pretended to act surprised and humiliated by an "Inadvertently" being seen in the nude when I didn't want to be seen in the nude and certainly not by THAT girl. I acted as though I had been crushed by her fully knowing about my naked body in every way.
Ultimately it was a fantastic experience, and the result was just what I had dreamed it would be with the girl snicker-laughing at her getting to "accidentally" see me totally nude.
I'm asking the board whether this has crossed anyone else's mind:
Is there a specific scenario you have thought about - please describe it.
Is there a specific man or women you wanted to be the one who got to see you in the nude - share who they are in relation to you.
What was your motive behind your doing this - such as in my case the desire to feel humiliated over their learning all about my naked body.
I was once IRL walked in on when I was totally nude and was completely humiliated by the experience.
A couple of years later, as harmful as the experience had been to my psyche, I began to masturbate to the memory of my own naked humiliation.
So a year after that I determined to purposely create a scenario where I pretended to act surprised and humiliated by an "Inadvertently" being seen in the nude when I didn't want to be seen in the nude and certainly not by THAT girl. I acted as though I had been crushed by her fully knowing about my naked body in every way.
Ultimately it was a fantastic experience, and the result was just what I had dreamed it would be with the girl snicker-laughing at her getting to "accidentally" see me totally nude.
I'm asking the board whether this has crossed anyone else's mind:
Is there a specific scenario you have thought about - please describe it.
Is there a specific man or women you wanted to be the one who got to see you in the nude - share who they are in relation to you.
What was your motive behind your doing this - such as in my case the desire to feel humiliated over their learning all about my naked body.
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Re: Intentionally Creating an ENF or ENM Situation and Pretending It Wasn't Planned and Acting Humiliated
Reminds me of the story "The Time I Let My Sister Pants Me" viewtopic.php?t=4978
and my story where I changed in the laundry room and my sister walked in viewtopic.php?p=36363
I hope you go into more detail on the original humiliation, and the followup experience where you created a scenario for it.
I love the idea of it, a girl catching me exposed. I love to imagine her reaction of snicker-laughing, and her knowing what I look like completely naked and that social power dynamic where she can hold it over me, secretly tease me to embarrass me or win an argument. I don't find the humiliation part in itself appealing, even in the moment where I walked into it knowing it could happen and then it actually happened, I wasn't enjoying it, I felt flustered and embarrassed, and it was only afterwards when I thought back to her reaction and what might have been going through her mind in that moment, and the overall event that it did happen, did I find enjoyment from it.
I think this is what brought me into liking CFNM (clothed female nude male) + ENM and maybe very mild SPH if it's not too mean. For my enjoyment it's more about seeing a girl enjoying the situation, laughing, amused, smug, grinning, thrilled, victorious.
I can't believe I had forgotten about this, but there was one time I used to video chat with a girl online that was my age but lived hundreds of miles away. Can't remember how we met, might have been a random chatroom or stickam, but we'd talk about our lives and makeup weird nicknames for each other and talk about our problems and try to make each other laugh. One summer there were flies in my house and they were so annoying and buzzing. I came up with the idea that I'd come back from a shower in just a towel and chat with her, then I'd get so annoyed by the flies that I'd stand on my bed and swing the flyswatter at the light on the ceiling where they kept flying circles and buzzing around. When she saw me in a towel at first she was like "oh you can get changed, we can do a video call later" and I just said "no big deal, let's keep chatting I still need to air dry". We talked for a bit then I got annoyed by the fly and stepped up on the bed while she watched laughing at the sight of me in a towel swatting away. I made an over-vigorous swing at the fly and my towel dropped and I was standing naked on my bed for a brief moment, full frontal view of my webcam, before I ducked down.
In my memory, the moment I ducked down she ended the video call. But it's possible she saw me ducking around and hiding behind my chair naked.
Anyway, I hopped on the computer and apologized and she was laughing her butt off in text, and we agreed not to have another video call that day.
Things moved on, we kept chatting as usual and she brought it up a few times, usually 1-4 months between each time.
her: "im going to take a shower"
her: "then head to bed"
her: "and go to sleep"
her: "bye X"
me: "pics"
me: "lol bye"
her: "stfu ur not getting pics"
me: "
"
her: "just because i saw your cheeks doesnt mean you get to see mine hahaha"
me:
her: "you were like *ohh, i see a fly. let me kill it"
her: "-towel falls- and you did that thing that they always do in cartoons hahaha"
me: "lol what?"
me: "cartoons?"
her: "like their clothes fall off"
her: "they cup themselves and run"
me: "oh right, because im just gonna stand there, with my hands at my sides"
her: "but you were all like -ducks behind chair-"
her: "lol
"
her: "would have made a good porno"
me: "lol"
her: "cya"
me: "you're so one-sided"
me:
her: ??
me: "my side: naked, your side: not naked"
her: "oh yeah"
her: "im like that with sex too"
her: "i dont like my body"
me: "oh"
her: "bye"
her: "you should get a coffee cup"
her: "and drink"
her: "then i can save capture"
me: "what's save capture?"
her: "like take a picture of the computer screen"
me: "oh shit"
me: "you didnt do that when the fly stole my towel right?"
her: "i didnt even think about that"
her: "i was too busy laughing"
me: "what's this about your bra?"
her: "brah"
me: "ohshit"
her: "haha"
her: "its green"
her: "wanna see?"
me: "sure"
her: "has a bow in the middle"
*she shows her bra strap*
me: "well i mean the bra not the bra strap"
her: "but you cant see that"
me: "oh well"
her: "ive seen you naked"
her: "but you know"
her: "i didnt ask"
her: "you were just like"
her: "no - LET ME KILL THIS FLY"
me: "hahaha"
one day a friend was at her house and was messaging me from her account
her friend: "and she would like to add u have nice butt cheeks
haha idk"
me: "lol damn her"
her friend: "haha just be glad she didnt get a pic of it lol"
me: "lol yeah, then id be really screwd"
a few months after, she got a bruise on her butt and was having a hard time sitting
her: "im going to get those underwear that have the butt built in"
her: "im going do it"
her: "then im gonna get on webcam"
her: "and be like look at my ass"
me: "lol let me see the butt bruise"
her: "nooo you freak"
me: "hahaha"
her: "just because ive seen you naked"
her: "doesnt mean you can see any part of me naked"
me: "hey now"
her: "hey"
her: "that was funny"
me: "i feel at such a disadvantage"
her: "haha"
4 months later
her: "my hairs a big curly mess, when its straight it covers my boobs now"
me: "impressive"
her: "haha im gonna walk around naked"
me: "lol do it"
her: "lol i am"
me: "i see you looking around but i'm not seeing you naked"
her: "lol not now. you're silly"
me: "you did say you wanted to find out who you are, what better way than walking around naked?"
her: "lol trying to see me?"
her: "like i saw you?"
me: "it's only fair
"
her: "i laughed so hard"
me: "so embarrassing"
her: "still hilarious"
me: "yea, we should do that again sometime"
her: "lol"
several months later I mentioned being drunk and she responded with
her: "don't do any streaking"
her: "and dont get on cam because the next time you drop a towel it might be on purpose"
me: "what?"
her: "that was hilarious that day"
me: "oh you haven't forgotten afterall"
her: "i did for awhile and it just came back to me"
her: "im going to get this fly.. *oh shi-*"
me:
her:
her: "i didnt see anything it was just too funny"
her: "you ducked so fast"
me: "haha thanks for reminding me"
Besides that and the time with my sister there wasn't any scenarios where this happened in my life, but I will admit I've thought about it happening again with my sister. Unfortunately such scenarios are hard to create, even at the best of times. We rarely have a chance to see each other alone, but here are some ideas I had thought about. Some are more "pretending it wasn't planned" than others, but I doubt any of it will happen or if I'm even sure if I want it to happen, it's more like fantasy daydreaming.
- Go for a walk somewhere after it rains, fall into a big puddle so all of my clothes are soaked and dirty. When I get back to my place, go into the laundry room and tell her I need to toss my clothes in the wash. Close the door and just start undressing, once I'm down to my underwear exclaim "shoot it soaked even my underwear" then toss them and everything into the washing machine. At this point I'd be completely naked behind the door with her standing between the laundry room and shower, and there's nothing to wear. "Shoot.. I didn't think this through", then I either race out naked past her, or I call out and say "don't look unless you want to see me naked" before I run out. Is it better to give a warning before? Or will it give her more opportunity to look at me, possibly even stand in my way to prolong my nakedness in front of her to embarrass me?
- Schedule a time for her to visit, and sleep in. When she arrives apologize and tell her I just need to shower. Before showering, call her into the bathroom to show off a new razor or shower curtain or something and then keep getting ready to shower, taking off my shirt, socks, etc. until I'm standing in my underwear. Will she stay in the bathroom as I'm clearly about to get naked? Do I ask her to look away or do I just go for it and step into the shower. Do I stop once I'm down to my underwear to give her the opportunity to give me privacy or just act like it's no big deal and keep going? Maybe I just go behind the shower curtain and remove my undies and toss them out. My shower curtain is very transparent, so I imagined a scenario where she teases me about how she can still see everything and I act like she can't because I don't realize how transparent it is because of my bad eyesight. To check if it actually is transparent I hold up a random amount fingers and ask her to guess how many I'm holding up, giving her a full frontal, and when she successfully guesses, I brush it off as a fluke until she guesses right 3 times in a row and I "realize" how visible it actually is and act humiliated.
- In either case, or if none of these happened and I'm taking a shower by myself, I can forget a towel and ask her to bring me one. There's a mirror directly in the bathroom so if I accidentally bump the door she'd be able to clearly see me in the reflection. Or I can just stand there with the door wide open and act embarrassed when she gets close enough to see everything.
- Or instead of asking her to bring me a towel, I can just walk out dripping wet and naked and ask her not to look while I walk to the linen closet and pull out a towel.
- I've also thought about if we were playing video games together, I'd act like I'm bored since there's no stakes and suggest betting on the outcome. Then saying I don't want to take money from family, and suggesting tame forfeits like the loser has to do 5 jumping jacks. Then after a few games act like the stakes aren't very high, what can we do to make it more interesting and suggest something random, like loser has to make a snowangel outside in their underwear. Pick a game that she's really good at and knows she's better than me at, then with false bravado act like I'd win against her, and raise the stakes that loser has to do a naked snowangel.
- It's more of a missed opportunity. I could have brought it up but I couldn't find a way to do it up naturally and I chickened out. I could ask about her nudist neighbors and ask if she remembers running through the house naked after work when we lived together and ask if she still does that. Confess that I've been interested in nudism but have never had the courage to go somewhere and do it with anyone around, and maybe she'd suggest I strip off right there.
- Bring up the idea of a bucket list, things we want to do before we die. Confess that I've always wanted to go streaking and skinny dipping to see what it was like but never having the opportunity to do it, there's always other people or cameras around. Maybe she has some ideas on how to accomplish that and maybe she wants to come.
and my story where I changed in the laundry room and my sister walked in viewtopic.php?p=36363
I hope you go into more detail on the original humiliation, and the followup experience where you created a scenario for it.
I love the idea of it, a girl catching me exposed. I love to imagine her reaction of snicker-laughing, and her knowing what I look like completely naked and that social power dynamic where she can hold it over me, secretly tease me to embarrass me or win an argument. I don't find the humiliation part in itself appealing, even in the moment where I walked into it knowing it could happen and then it actually happened, I wasn't enjoying it, I felt flustered and embarrassed, and it was only afterwards when I thought back to her reaction and what might have been going through her mind in that moment, and the overall event that it did happen, did I find enjoyment from it.
I think this is what brought me into liking CFNM (clothed female nude male) + ENM and maybe very mild SPH if it's not too mean. For my enjoyment it's more about seeing a girl enjoying the situation, laughing, amused, smug, grinning, thrilled, victorious.
I can't believe I had forgotten about this, but there was one time I used to video chat with a girl online that was my age but lived hundreds of miles away. Can't remember how we met, might have been a random chatroom or stickam, but we'd talk about our lives and makeup weird nicknames for each other and talk about our problems and try to make each other laugh. One summer there were flies in my house and they were so annoying and buzzing. I came up with the idea that I'd come back from a shower in just a towel and chat with her, then I'd get so annoyed by the flies that I'd stand on my bed and swing the flyswatter at the light on the ceiling where they kept flying circles and buzzing around. When she saw me in a towel at first she was like "oh you can get changed, we can do a video call later" and I just said "no big deal, let's keep chatting I still need to air dry". We talked for a bit then I got annoyed by the fly and stepped up on the bed while she watched laughing at the sight of me in a towel swatting away. I made an over-vigorous swing at the fly and my towel dropped and I was standing naked on my bed for a brief moment, full frontal view of my webcam, before I ducked down.
In my memory, the moment I ducked down she ended the video call. But it's possible she saw me ducking around and hiding behind my chair naked.
Anyway, I hopped on the computer and apologized and she was laughing her butt off in text, and we agreed not to have another video call that day.
Things moved on, we kept chatting as usual and she brought it up a few times, usually 1-4 months between each time.
her: "im going to take a shower"
her: "then head to bed"
her: "and go to sleep"
her: "bye X"
me: "pics"
me: "lol bye"
her: "stfu ur not getting pics"
me: "
her: "just because i saw your cheeks doesnt mean you get to see mine hahaha"
me:
her: "you were like *ohh, i see a fly. let me kill it"
her: "-towel falls- and you did that thing that they always do in cartoons hahaha"
me: "lol what?"
me: "cartoons?"
her: "like their clothes fall off"
her: "they cup themselves and run"
me: "oh right, because im just gonna stand there, with my hands at my sides"
her: "but you were all like -ducks behind chair-"
her: "lol
her: "would have made a good porno"
me: "lol"
her: "cya"
me: "you're so one-sided"
me:
her: ??
me: "my side: naked, your side: not naked"
her: "oh yeah"
her: "im like that with sex too"
her: "i dont like my body"
me: "oh"
her: "bye"
her: "you should get a coffee cup"
her: "and drink"
her: "then i can save capture"
me: "what's save capture?"
her: "like take a picture of the computer screen"
me: "oh shit"
me: "you didnt do that when the fly stole my towel right?"
her: "i didnt even think about that"
her: "i was too busy laughing"
me: "what's this about your bra?"
her: "brah"
me: "ohshit"
her: "haha"
her: "its green"
her: "wanna see?"
me: "sure"
her: "has a bow in the middle"
*she shows her bra strap*
me: "well i mean the bra not the bra strap"
her: "but you cant see that"
me: "oh well"
her: "ive seen you naked"
her: "but you know"
her: "i didnt ask"
her: "you were just like"
her: "no - LET ME KILL THIS FLY"
me: "hahaha"
one day a friend was at her house and was messaging me from her account
her friend: "and she would like to add u have nice butt cheeks
me: "lol damn her"
her friend: "haha just be glad she didnt get a pic of it lol"
me: "lol yeah, then id be really screwd"
a few months after, she got a bruise on her butt and was having a hard time sitting
her: "im going to get those underwear that have the butt built in"
her: "im going do it"
her: "then im gonna get on webcam"
her: "and be like look at my ass"
me: "lol let me see the butt bruise"
her: "nooo you freak"
me: "hahaha"
her: "just because ive seen you naked"
her: "doesnt mean you can see any part of me naked"
me: "hey now"
her: "hey"
her: "that was funny"
me: "i feel at such a disadvantage"
her: "haha"
4 months later
her: "my hairs a big curly mess, when its straight it covers my boobs now"
me: "impressive"
her: "haha im gonna walk around naked"
me: "lol do it"
her: "lol i am"
me: "i see you looking around but i'm not seeing you naked"
her: "lol not now. you're silly"
me: "you did say you wanted to find out who you are, what better way than walking around naked?"
her: "lol trying to see me?"
her: "like i saw you?"
me: "it's only fair
her: "i laughed so hard"
me: "so embarrassing"
her: "still hilarious"
me: "yea, we should do that again sometime"
her: "lol"
several months later I mentioned being drunk and she responded with
her: "don't do any streaking"
her: "and dont get on cam because the next time you drop a towel it might be on purpose"
me: "what?"
her: "that was hilarious that day"
me: "oh you haven't forgotten afterall"
her: "i did for awhile and it just came back to me"
her: "im going to get this fly.. *oh shi-*"
me:
her:
her: "i didnt see anything it was just too funny"
her: "you ducked so fast"
me: "haha thanks for reminding me"
Besides that and the time with my sister there wasn't any scenarios where this happened in my life, but I will admit I've thought about it happening again with my sister. Unfortunately such scenarios are hard to create, even at the best of times. We rarely have a chance to see each other alone, but here are some ideas I had thought about. Some are more "pretending it wasn't planned" than others, but I doubt any of it will happen or if I'm even sure if I want it to happen, it's more like fantasy daydreaming.
- Go for a walk somewhere after it rains, fall into a big puddle so all of my clothes are soaked and dirty. When I get back to my place, go into the laundry room and tell her I need to toss my clothes in the wash. Close the door and just start undressing, once I'm down to my underwear exclaim "shoot it soaked even my underwear" then toss them and everything into the washing machine. At this point I'd be completely naked behind the door with her standing between the laundry room and shower, and there's nothing to wear. "Shoot.. I didn't think this through", then I either race out naked past her, or I call out and say "don't look unless you want to see me naked" before I run out. Is it better to give a warning before? Or will it give her more opportunity to look at me, possibly even stand in my way to prolong my nakedness in front of her to embarrass me?
- Schedule a time for her to visit, and sleep in. When she arrives apologize and tell her I just need to shower. Before showering, call her into the bathroom to show off a new razor or shower curtain or something and then keep getting ready to shower, taking off my shirt, socks, etc. until I'm standing in my underwear. Will she stay in the bathroom as I'm clearly about to get naked? Do I ask her to look away or do I just go for it and step into the shower. Do I stop once I'm down to my underwear to give her the opportunity to give me privacy or just act like it's no big deal and keep going? Maybe I just go behind the shower curtain and remove my undies and toss them out. My shower curtain is very transparent, so I imagined a scenario where she teases me about how she can still see everything and I act like she can't because I don't realize how transparent it is because of my bad eyesight. To check if it actually is transparent I hold up a random amount fingers and ask her to guess how many I'm holding up, giving her a full frontal, and when she successfully guesses, I brush it off as a fluke until she guesses right 3 times in a row and I "realize" how visible it actually is and act humiliated.
- In either case, or if none of these happened and I'm taking a shower by myself, I can forget a towel and ask her to bring me one. There's a mirror directly in the bathroom so if I accidentally bump the door she'd be able to clearly see me in the reflection. Or I can just stand there with the door wide open and act embarrassed when she gets close enough to see everything.
- Or instead of asking her to bring me a towel, I can just walk out dripping wet and naked and ask her not to look while I walk to the linen closet and pull out a towel.
- I've also thought about if we were playing video games together, I'd act like I'm bored since there's no stakes and suggest betting on the outcome. Then saying I don't want to take money from family, and suggesting tame forfeits like the loser has to do 5 jumping jacks. Then after a few games act like the stakes aren't very high, what can we do to make it more interesting and suggest something random, like loser has to make a snowangel outside in their underwear. Pick a game that she's really good at and knows she's better than me at, then with false bravado act like I'd win against her, and raise the stakes that loser has to do a naked snowangel.
- It's more of a missed opportunity. I could have brought it up but I couldn't find a way to do it up naturally and I chickened out. I could ask about her nudist neighbors and ask if she remembers running through the house naked after work when we lived together and ask if she still does that. Confess that I've been interested in nudism but have never had the courage to go somewhere and do it with anyone around, and maybe she'd suggest I strip off right there.
- Bring up the idea of a bucket list, things we want to do before we die. Confess that I've always wanted to go streaking and skinny dipping to see what it was like but never having the opportunity to do it, there's always other people or cameras around. Maybe she has some ideas on how to accomplish that and maybe she wants to come.
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Re: Intentionally Creating an ENF or ENM Situation and Pretending It Wasn't Planned and Acting Humiliated
Did she ever end up showing you any of her bits? Like her boobs or ass?jllash wrote: Thu May 28, 2026 10:10 pm Reminds me of the story "The Time I Let My Sister Pants Me" viewtopic.php?t=4978
and my story where I changed in the laundry room and my sister walked in viewtopic.php?p=36363
I hope you go into more detail on the original humiliation, and the followup experience where you created a scenario for it.
I love the idea of it, a girl catching me exposed. I love to imagine her reaction of snicker-laughing, and her knowing what I look like completely naked and that social power dynamic where she can hold it over me, secretly tease me to embarrass me or win an argument. I don't find the humiliation part in itself appealing, even in the moment where I walked into it knowing it could happen and then it actually happened, I wasn't enjoying it, I felt flustered and embarrassed, and it was only afterwards when I thought back to her reaction and what might have been going through her mind in that moment, and the overall event that it did happen, did I find enjoyment from it.
I think this is what brought me into liking CFNM (clothed female nude male) + ENM and maybe very mild SPH if it's not too mean. For my enjoyment it's more about seeing a girl enjoying the situation, laughing, amused, smug, grinning, thrilled, victorious.
I can't believe I had forgotten about this, but there was one time I used to video chat with a girl online that was my age but lived hundreds of miles away. Can't remember how we met, might have been a random chatroom or stickam, but we'd talk about our lives and makeup weird nicknames for each other and talk about our problems and try to make each other laugh. One summer there were flies in my house and they were so annoying and buzzing. I came up with the idea that I'd come back from a shower in just a towel and chat with her, then I'd get so annoyed by the flies that I'd stand on my bed and swing the flyswatter at the light on the ceiling where they kept flying circles and buzzing around. When she saw me in a towel at first she was like "oh you can get changed, we can do a video call later" and I just said "no big deal, let's keep chatting I still need to air dry". We talked for a bit then I got annoyed by the fly and stepped up on the bed while she watched laughing at the sight of me in a towel swatting away. I made an over-vigorous swing at the fly and my towel dropped and I was standing naked on my bed for a brief moment, full frontal view of my webcam, before I ducked down.
In my memory, the moment I ducked down she ended the video call. But it's possible she saw me ducking around and hiding behind my chair naked.
Anyway, I hopped on the computer and apologized and she was laughing her butt off in text, and we agreed not to have another video call that day.
Things moved on, we kept chatting as usual and she brought it up a few times, usually 1-4 months between each time.
her: "im going to take a shower"
her: "then head to bed"
her: "and go to sleep"
her: "bye X"
me: "pics"
me: "lol bye"
her: "stfu ur not getting pics"
me: ""
her: "just because i saw your cheeks doesnt mean you get to see mine hahaha"
me:![]()
her: "you were like *ohh, i see a fly. let me kill it"
her: "-towel falls- and you did that thing that they always do in cartoons hahaha"
me: "lol what?"
me: "cartoons?"
her: "like their clothes fall off"
her: "they cup themselves and run"
me: "oh right, because im just gonna stand there, with my hands at my sides"
her: "but you were all like -ducks behind chair-"
her: "lol"
her: "would have made a good porno"
me: "lol"
her: "cya"
me: "you're so one-sided"
me:
her: ??
me: "my side: naked, your side: not naked"
her: "oh yeah"
her: "im like that with sex too"
her: "i dont like my body"
me: "oh"
her: "bye"
her: "you should get a coffee cup"
her: "and drink"
her: "then i can save capture"
me: "what's save capture?"
her: "like take a picture of the computer screen"
me: "oh shit"
me: "you didnt do that when the fly stole my towel right?"
her: "i didnt even think about that"
her: "i was too busy laughing"
me: "what's this about your bra?"
her: "brah"
me: "ohshit"
her: "haha"
her: "its green"
her: "wanna see?"
me: "sure"
her: "has a bow in the middle"
*she shows her bra strap*
me: "well i mean the bra not the bra strap"
her: "but you cant see that"
me: "oh well"
her: "ive seen you naked"
her: "but you know"
her: "i didnt ask"
her: "you were just like"
her: "no - LET ME KILL THIS FLY"
me: "hahaha"
one day a friend was at her house and was messaging me from her account
her friend: "and she would like to add u have nice butt cheekshaha idk"
me: "lol damn her"
her friend: "haha just be glad she didnt get a pic of it lol"
me: "lol yeah, then id be really screwd"
a few months after, she got a bruise on her butt and was having a hard time sitting
her: "im going to get those underwear that have the butt built in"
her: "im going do it"
her: "then im gonna get on webcam"
her: "and be like look at my ass"
me: "lol let me see the butt bruise"
her: "nooo you freak"
me: "hahaha"
her: "just because ive seen you naked"
her: "doesnt mean you can see any part of me naked"
me: "hey now"
her: "hey"
her: "that was funny"
me: "i feel at such a disadvantage"
her: "haha"
4 months later
her: "my hairs a big curly mess, when its straight it covers my boobs now"
me: "impressive"
her: "haha im gonna walk around naked"
me: "lol do it"
her: "lol i am"
me: "i see you looking around but i'm not seeing you naked"
her: "lol not now. you're silly"
me: "you did say you wanted to find out who you are, what better way than walking around naked?"
her: "lol trying to see me?"
her: "like i saw you?"
me: "it's only fair"
her: "i laughed so hard"
me: "so embarrassing"
her: "still hilarious"
me: "yea, we should do that again sometime"
her: "lol"
several months later I mentioned being drunk and she responded with
her: "don't do any streaking"
her: "and dont get on cam because the next time you drop a towel it might be on purpose"
me: "what?"
her: "that was hilarious that day"
me: "oh you haven't forgotten afterall"
her: "i did for awhile and it just came back to me"
her: "im going to get this fly.. *oh shi-*"
me:![]()
her:
her: "i didnt see anything it was just too funny"
her: "you ducked so fast"
me: "haha thanks for reminding me"
Besides that and the time with my sister there wasn't any scenarios where this happened in my life, but I will admit I've thought about it happening again with my sister. Unfortunately such scenarios are hard to create, even at the best of times. We rarely have a chance to see each other alone, but here are some ideas I had thought about. Some are more "pretending it wasn't planned" than others, but I doubt any of it will happen or if I'm even sure if I want it to happen, it's more like fantasy daydreaming.
- Go for a walk somewhere after it rains, fall into a big puddle so all of my clothes are soaked and dirty. When I get back to my place, go into the laundry room and tell her I need to toss my clothes in the wash. Close the door and just start undressing, once I'm down to my underwear exclaim "shoot it soaked even my underwear" then toss them and everything into the washing machine. At this point I'd be completely naked behind the door with her standing between the laundry room and shower, and there's nothing to wear. "Shoot.. I didn't think this through", then I either race out naked past her, or I call out and say "don't look unless you want to see me naked" before I run out. Is it better to give a warning before? Or will it give her more opportunity to look at me, possibly even stand in my way to prolong my nakedness in front of her to embarrass me?
- Schedule a time for her to visit, and sleep in. When she arrives apologize and tell her I just need to shower. Before showering, call her into the bathroom to show off a new razor or shower curtain or something and then keep getting ready to shower, taking off my shirt, socks, etc. until I'm standing in my underwear. Will she stay in the bathroom as I'm clearly about to get naked? Do I ask her to look away or do I just go for it and step into the shower. Do I stop once I'm down to my underwear to give her the opportunity to give me privacy or just act like it's no big deal and keep going? Maybe I just go behind the shower curtain and remove my undies and toss them out. My shower curtain is very transparent, so I imagined a scenario where she teases me about how she can still see everything and I act like she can't because I don't realize how transparent it is because of my bad eyesight. To check if it actually is transparent I hold up a random amount fingers and ask her to guess how many I'm holding up, giving her a full frontal, and when she successfully guesses, I brush it off as a fluke until she guesses right 3 times in a row and I "realize" how visible it actually is and act humiliated.
- In either case, or if none of these happened and I'm taking a shower by myself, I can forget a towel and ask her to bring me one. There's a mirror directly in the bathroom so if I accidentally bump the door she'd be able to clearly see me in the reflection. Or I can just stand there with the door wide open and act embarrassed when she gets close enough to see everything.
- Or instead of asking her to bring me a towel, I can just walk out dripping wet and naked and ask her not to look while I walk to the linen closet and pull out a towel.
- I've also thought about if we were playing video games together, I'd act like I'm bored since there's no stakes and suggest betting on the outcome. Then saying I don't want to take money from family, and suggesting tame forfeits like the loser has to do 5 jumping jacks. Then after a few games act like the stakes aren't very high, what can we do to make it more interesting and suggest something random, like loser has to make a snowangel outside in their underwear. Pick a game that she's really good at and knows she's better than me at, then with false bravado act like I'd win against her, and raise the stakes that loser has to do a naked snowangel.
- It's more of a missed opportunity. I could have brought it up but I couldn't find a way to do it up naturally and I chickened out. I could ask about her nudist neighbors and ask if she remembers running through the house naked after work when we lived together and ask if she still does that. Confess that I've been interested in nudism but have never had the courage to go somewhere and do it with anyone around, and maybe she'd suggest I strip off right there.
- Bring up the idea of a bucket list, things we want to do before we die. Confess that I've always wanted to go streaking and skinny dipping to see what it was like but never having the opportunity to do it, there's always other people or cameras around. Maybe she has some ideas on how to accomplish that and maybe she wants to come.
Sounds like she was hesitant but not totally against it.
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You beat me to it. It makes me happy that someone else thought of my story before I even got here. Arguably my other true story has a hint of this theme but is more about exhibitionism.jllash wrote: Thu May 28, 2026 10:10 pm Reminds me of the story "The Time I Let My Sister Pants Me" viewtopic.php?t=4978
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No, as much as I wanted to see, I did not ever see her in any state of undress.Freesub wrote: Fri May 29, 2026 9:39 am Did she ever end up showing you any of her bits? Like her boobs or ass?
Sounds like she was hesitant but not totally against it.
The closest was one time she wore a tanktop with a lot of cleavage and was laying down on her bed facing her laptop webcam and I could see about 40% of her boobs. I remember being afraid to even mention it because the last time I mentioned her cleavage that showed like 20% of her boobs she put on a sweater over top to cover up immediately afterwards.
I always hoped she'd let me see something but over the 2 or 3 years of talking almost daily it just never happened. It does feel like she wasn't totally against it but she always rejected it whenever I suggested it, as you can see she would turn it around on me to tease and laugh at me for seeing me naked. Then she would change the subject.
Early on she mentioned a few times how annoying it was every guy on the internet just wants nudes, so I didn't want to be too pushy and ruin our friendship over it, and while there were clearly times she was flirty/teasing, it didn't lead to anything. I think a part of it was she was self-conscious about her body, she was a little chubby but certainly not obese and had big boobs.
Thank you for sharing it in the first place! It's one of my favorites, a rare situation where a girl goes out of her way to strip a guy, a brief window of opportunity where you could have stopped it, but you let it happen, and she and her friend are rewarded with the sight of your naked body. A fantastic CFNM+ENM+SPH scenario.IdentityUnknown wrote: Fri May 29, 2026 11:48 am You beat me to it. It makes me happy that someone else thought of my story before I even got here. Arguably my other true story has a hint of this theme but is more about exhibitionism.
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You seem to be asking about deliberately setting up a designed situation, I don't feel like this is quite what you meant but I think it's at least in the ballpark.Xirix7 wrote: Thu May 28, 2026 6:01 pm Is there a specific scenario you have thought about - please describe it.
After the experiences I had feeling embarrassed and body shy, I reached a point about 10 years ago where I decided to "flip the script" and now when I find myself in a situation where being naked or exposed is a valid or reasonable state, I push myself to undress. Maybe I don't go out of my way to show off, but at least I don't completely hide.
When I'm at the dermatologist for a skin check or at the doctor's for a physical, if they give me a drape I'll put it on loosely but my boxers always come off and if the drape shifts and things start showing I try to resist putting it back automatically.
When I go to the pool, I deliberately go there in my street clothes and change in the locker room. And when I change, I try to take off my shoes, shorts, and boxers first. If I'm using one of the lockers, I'll take a moment to start putting things into it. Then I'll remove my socks and lastly my shirt before I put on my trunks. If I use the shower, I'll usually strip at the locker and then walk to/from the shower just holding my towel. Of course if there are kids around I'll be more discreet. And if someone comes in and starts changing next to me I'll sort of match their modesty level. If they seem uptight or shy I'll hurry up and put on my boxers, but if they let it all hang out then I do also. And if they want to chat I absolutely will, again trying to mirror their cues -- I've chatted back to back while getting dressed, chatted face to face holding my towel, chatted sitting naked while the other guy stood and toweled himself off.
Basically, I make a point of putting myself in the position where someone can look if they want to but without me being egregious about it or forcing it on them. Obviously in the locker room I only get seen by other guys but almost all of my urologists and dermatologists have been women.
It takes me out of my comfort zone which is kind of exciting on its own, and I've realized I like being seen in the right circumstances. Plus I really do think it's important to not be so hung up about modesty that you can't function in a social situation where some amount of exposure is reasonable or appropriate.
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I did that a few times. My girlfriend and I went to a state park beach on a 4th of July weekend and she brought an old two piece but modest swim suit and I word swim trunks. We set up as far up the beach from the water as we could and then went swimming. After a half hour when the beach was very crowed, she "lost" her bottom part of the suit so being the gentleman, I took off my swim trunks so she could wear them and we went back to our stuff up the beach, she wearing my trunks and me, naked. It was easy for people to see her wearing my swim trunks so they assumed she lost hers and I gave her mine to protect her modesty. Many moms and days were even pointing at us telling their young daughters to look at us. Oddly enough, no one offered me a towel but many were applauding me for sacrificing my modesty for hers. Even a couple of life guards were applauding us.
Over the long weekend, we did this at three different beaches with the same results but did not want to risk going to other beaches. Yes it was difficult to act embarassed as we walked up the beach with both my arms holding her so I could not cover and over all, I would say several hundred women and girls saw everything I had and the best part is that people cheered us thinking I was a perfect gentleman,
Over the long weekend, we did this at three different beaches with the same results but did not want to risk going to other beaches. Yes it was difficult to act embarassed as we walked up the beach with both my arms holding her so I could not cover and over all, I would say several hundred women and girls saw everything I had and the best part is that people cheered us thinking I was a perfect gentleman,
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First Post - New to Sharing experiences - Lifetime CFNM Fan!
I went to see my Doctor Today.
She's a very nice pretty lady.
I really just wanted to show her my willy.
I concocted a scenario to make this happen.
All my hopes and expectations were more than exceeded!
I was completely naked with her for 10-or-so minutes
My Penis and Balls were thoroughly examined and handled.
I acted ENM. She was very reassuring and comforting.
Oh it was wonderful.
If anyone is interested, I'd like to post a full detailed account of the event - when I get time.
I went to see my Doctor Today.
She's a very nice pretty lady.
I really just wanted to show her my willy.
I concocted a scenario to make this happen.
All my hopes and expectations were more than exceeded!
I was completely naked with her for 10-or-so minutes
My Penis and Balls were thoroughly examined and handled.
I acted ENM. She was very reassuring and comforting.
Oh it was wonderful.
If anyone is interested, I'd like to post a full detailed account of the event - when I get time.
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I'm curious, what did you tell the doc to prompt such an exam?TigerJim wrote: Sat May 30, 2026 12:56 pm I concocted a scenario to make this happen. ... My Penis and Balls were thoroughly examined and handled.
Although I make a point of undressing at the doctor on the occasions where I'm given the option, I've never tried to deliberately arrange for it without a real complaint. The local clinic doesn't even ask you to disrobe for a physical these days and when I offered a couple years ago the nurse said to keep everything on unless the doc says otherwise.
My preference would be to come up with a legit reason to have the doc take a look rather than just making something up. Like, I've been thinking about asking my urologist a question or two about my circumcision scar. Yes, it's kind of an excuse to have the doctor look at things but at the same time I really would like to hear the answers.
It'd be great to hear a longform account of your experience when you can share it.TigerJim wrote: Sat May 30, 2026 12:56 pm If anyone is interested, I'd like to post a full detailed account of the event - when I get time.![]()
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I set up a CFNM situation where I was trapped, nude and at a distinct disadvantage. The female, my younger sister, got a long full frontal look. She even smirked and giggled. The feeling of humiliation and loss of control of a situation was exhilarating.
My sister would tease me about the event regularly, which refreshed my memory and caused me pleasure.
My sister would tease me about the event regularly, which refreshed my memory and caused me pleasure.
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