Would you rather...?

[NudeBaG]

At any age,
Would you rather be naked in public, in front of strangers of the opposite sex?
Or
In private, in front of friends of the opposite sex?

Additionally…
Would rather BE CAUGHT?
Or CATCH?

[Executionus]

I'd say at any age for me the answers would be "catch" and "in private with friends" given that those were the scenarios I sought out while the opposites were the scenarios I worked to avoid. If I had a nickel for every time young me put effort, time, and planning into trying to catch/spy/peek/access-on-tech girls I knew who I was not supposed to be seeing naked, I'd have a McDuck money bin. And if I had to pay the nickel back every time any of that effort actually produced any form of nude results, I'd probably cover my bill with a JFK 50 cent coin.

[RaccoonBatteryStaple]

At any age,
Would you rather be naked in public, in front of strangers of the opposite sex?
Or
In private, in front of friends of the opposite sex?

Additionally…
Would rather BE CAUGHT?
Or CATCH?

For me, context is king -- always. Depending on the circumstance I could be interested in any of those combinations.

[justcantgetitup]

At any age,
Would you rather be naked in public, in front of strangers of the opposite sex?
Or
In private, in front of friends of the opposite sex?

Additionally…
Would rather BE CAUGHT?
Or CATCH?

I don't really think about this kind of thing now, but right into my late 20's I had a CFNM fantasy where I would perform a complete striptease on stage in front of an audience of women older than me such as at my Mom's bingo club, in the 40+ bracket. I would finish the performance with a massive boner then come down and walk amongst the tables, talking to the ladies, while they cheekily pinched my buttocks or gave my penis a tug "for luck". Maybe one or two would grab me and give my glans a quick suck.

Similarly, when I was 18, I started a new job and found there was one part of the factory where it was exclusively women aged 35-50. I would wish that when I went in there to collect lab samples for the boss, they would capture me, strip me naked and sexually assault me but sadly they never did.

As for the second question, I like to CATCH. Over the years I've enjoyed seeing a few female neighbours in various states of undress but it's been accidental every time, I have never tried to spy on anyone in a voyeuristic way.

[RaccoonBatteryStaple]

I had a CFNM fantasy where I would perform a complete striptease on stage in front of an audience of women older than me such as at my Mom's bingo club, in the 40+ bracket. I would finish the performance with a massive boner then come down and walk amongst the tables, talking to the ladies, while they cheekily pinched my buttocks or gave my penis a tug "for luck".

That is a most excellent fantasy.

[Robert Brooks]

Similarly, when I was 18, I started a new job and found there was one part of the factory where it was exclusively women aged 35-50. I would wish that when I went in there to collect lab samples for the boss, they would capture me, strip me naked and sexually assault me but sadly they never did.

This scenario features heavily in several of Britguy’s stories, in the ENM section.

[Bitsnbobs]

When I was a young guy, my first apartment was on the top floor, with a good view of the apartments opposite. Many times I was able to watch women undressing and dressing. Mostly they simply didn't think anyone could look in. In one case, the guy ( I never actually met him) had a regular female visitor, who would turn up at two or three month intervals, and stay for a few days. Every evening, she would stand right in front of the bedroom window, and strip completely naked, before putting in a one piece garment I don't have a name for, maybe playsuit. There is no way she could not know she knows that be being watched.

Much as I loved watching, I also wished that I could be watched, but never had the right locations, although a couple of my recent neighbours acknowledged they often saw me when I was working naked around the house.

[RaccoonBatteryStaple]

When I was a young guy, my first apartment was on the top floor, with a good view of the apartments opposite. Many times I was able to watch women undressing and dressing. Mostly they simply didn't think anyone could look in.

I've generally taken the attitude that if someone is taking the trouble to look at my window at the right moment and they're able to see something, that's on me for being naked that close to the window and/or not closing the shades.

Of course, the other side of that coin is that I'm generally fine with someone seeing if they want to look.

[Bitsnbobs]

That seems a fair approach. If someone is making a deliberate show, it would be rude to not watch. Conversely if someone is making a definite effort to watch me, I don't want them to be disappointed. I once spotted a neighbour spying on me sunbathing nude. She had the curtains nearly closed, and stood back from the window, but I could still see the white blob of her face against the dark background. I stood up, stretched, rearranged my towels, had a drink before lying down.
She doesn't know I know, and I gave her a few other shows over that summer.

[Bitsnbobs]

One summer day, I was doing my housework, naked as usual. My phone rang, a friend calling. While talking, a charity worker walked up my drive - I don't know if she looked in the window or not, but she would have seen me naked.

I don't normally answer the doorbell naked, I keep a towel handy, and wrap up before opening the door, but phone in hand, I couldn't. I intended to dismiss the caller quicky, as I already contribute to her charity.

I opened the door,, just a little, and hung my head round. Before I could say anything, and with no introduction even, she asked "have you nothing on"? While leaning slightly to try to see more. I opened the door slightly more - her hands shot up to her mouth, while she bent down, peering at me from just a few inches. I tried to tell her I was a subscriber, but she had no attention left for listening. After what seemed an age, she stood up, and backed away a few steps saying "you have to sign up now" so I was able to tell her I already was.

She would be telling her fellow workers about it for months.

Definitely my most enjoyable being caught - she seemed to have no embarrassment at enjoying the experience. I often wonder what would have happened if I had invited her in to sign me up.