IRL Spankings from your past that are now part of your fetish fantasies

[Xirix7]

A few years ago, a guy shared with me how he was humiliated during his mid-puberty years by a punishment spanking that included - as collateral punishment - naked humiliation. The main purpose of his spanking was to punish him for voyeuring his cousin. And he was punished by a spanking that included in its handling of his body, his being stripped naked while getting spanked.

I have myself never been spanked in an OTK way. But occasionally I have read about such things happening to both guys and girls.

I'm not asking anyone to write a novella, but are there anyone out there who experienced a spanking that was at the time completely humiliating but has become since it happened, part of their memories they now get off on? Will you share, here? Thanks.

[Dotka]

I believe the main incident that sparked my interest in these topics occurred when I was 13. I grew up with my mother and my sister, who was two years older than me. In the community where I was raised, spankings for boys were always administered on their bare buttocks—though the exact method depended on who was doing the spanking. I recall seeing friends being spanked with their pants pulled down just enough to expose their buttocks, while others had their pants removed entirely. In my mother’s case, she wouldn’t just pull down my pants; she would remove every piece of clothing I was wearing, including my shoes and socks.

As for the incident in question: I had been bothering my sister when my mother caught me. She grabbed me by the ear and pulled me into the living room. I knew what was coming, but honestly, at 13, I felt I was far too old for spankings. My mother clearly disagreed; she forcibly stripped me while I squirmed on the floor, eventually leaving me completely naked. This is the part I’m most ashamed of: usually, she would spank me across her knees, with my penis positioned between or pressed against her legs—which, I suppose, offered a bit more privacy. On this occasion, however, I squirmed so much that when she placed me across her knees, my penis and scrotum ended up outside that space, pressed directly against my own buttocks. My mother, seemingly fed up with my disobedience, focused solely on spanking me with great anger. I kicked and cried, still struggling to get my clothes back and insisting that I was too old for this—while my sister, meanwhile, had a clear, unobstructed view of all my private parts.

I have far too many experiences like this—including one at age 16 that didn’t involve spanking, but did involve accidental nudity. However, this particular story from when I was 13 stands out: it was one of the last instances of spanking I recall, and it was the first time I became aware of the double standard regarding modesty for boys versus girls. At first, things like this would give me a burning sensation in my stomach—a feeling that began as anger—but over time, it evolved into a fondness for that very injustice, eventually leading to my interest in CFNM and ENM stories.

[CuletCat]

Where and when I was raised, spanking kids was already considered old fashioned, and my parents didn't spank me or my sister, except one time when I was little (4 or 5). I don't even remember what I did, but I sure remember my dad giving me a quick bare bottom hand spanking on the couch in the living room. He placed me over his knee, pulled down my pants and underwear to my ankles and swatted my butt like 10 or 15 times. Apart from that, nothing.

An incident that I've often fantasized about is one that I didn't actually see fully. I was in the beach with my parents, uncles and two cousins younger than me. I was 12 or 13. I was the last one to leave the water after playing around with my cousins, and when I'm coming back they tell me there's a boy getting a spanking from his mom near us! All I could see was his reddened bottom for a couple of seconds when the poor kid was pulling up his swimsuit. He was my age or a bit younger. One minute earlier and I would've seen everything! Still, the incident has been part of my fantasies since then and I've imagined myself in the position of that boy many, many times.

[Xirix7]

Still, the incident has been part of my fantasies since then and I've imagined myself in the position of that boy many, many times.

Does that mean you have fantasized about being at the beach in your swim trunks and getting a spanking at 13 or 14, where those who know you get to see you stripped naked of your trunks and you then spanked?

[CuletCat]

Does that mean you have fantasized about being at the beach in your swim trunks and getting a spanking at 13 or 14, where those who know you get to see you stripped naked of your trunks and you then spanked?

Yes! Of course, if that had happened to me at that age, I'd have died of embarrassment, but as a fantasy it's very exciting to me.