Intentionally Creating an ENF or ENM Situation and Pretending It Wasn't Planned and Acting Humiliated

[DrWhoFanJ]

It wasn’t an ENM situation per se, but I definitely used to carefully place my boners in my shorts so people could potentially see up then to it when I was playing sports. Let’s just say that my height wasn’t the only reason I preferred to play basketball, netball and the like!

I’d do the same when swimming, too, back when I still had to wear trunks. Indeed, I would sometimes even have my trunks floating alongside me hoping to catch someone looking so I could pull the classic embarrassed-young-man pose only to realise I can’t leave my hands there and recover my trunks as well and "forget" to swim facing down so they could see it even better! (It never quite made it to the ideal situation of them showing me in return, unfortunately, but it was still very thrilling regardless!)


Another similar thing I still try and do occasionally is to wear rather loose trousers (as someone who has now gone commando for quite a few years) knowing that they might fall if I move too quickly. Let’s just (also) say that, if I’d discovered them earlier, I would definitely have worn them sometimes for doing sports and on the playgrounds at school!

[BareB4U]

I sort of did this once. I put myself in a situation where I could be walked in on naked, but I wasn't expecting it to actually happen. When it did, the humiliation was real! No acting required!

I stayed in several crappy youth hostels during my younger, backpacking days. One of them had a single, basic bathroom block per floor, containing three showers and a row of sinks. (There were separate toilets.) The showers had privacy screens, but the only place to leave your clothes where they wouldn't get soaked was on a series of hooks on the bathroom wall, outside the showers. There was no place to get undressed or dressed in privacy. The bathroom was unisex.

You would think a hostel full of late teens/early twentysomethings, with a bathroom like this, would be a hotbed of all sorts of naked hijinks, but actually everyone was very boring and sensible about it. There seemed to be an unwritten rule that you would always knock on the door before using the bathroom. If someone of the opposite sex was in there, you'd wait for them to finish or tell you it was okay to enter.

I took my time drying and dressing whenever I showered there, imagining what it would be like if a girl were to walk in on me. If they knocked on the door while I was naked, the thought crossed my mind that I might say it was okay to come in, but that was too daring and brazen. It wouldn't be accidental and I might offend someone. So it remained an idle fantasy.

At least, it did until my third or fourth day at the hostel. I was taking my time after my shower, as usual. I'd just finished drying myself and was thinking I ought to get dressed, when the bathroom door opened without warning. Evidently not everyone had gotten the memo about knocking first. A girl walked in before she saw me. It was an almost textbook CFNM moment, her dressed in full-length pyjamas, me stark bollock naked and caught unexpectedly. She was cute-looking too.

I saw her look down at my penis and balls. I hesitated with indecision for a couple of seconds, torn between wanting her to see me and real, genuine embarrassment. She giggled and said, "Oops!" Embarrassment won. (She GIGGLED! ) I quickly covered myself, although it was too late for that to do much good. She had already seen everything. "Sorry!" the girl added, though it didn't look or sound like she meant it. She backed out of the bathroom, not taking her eyes off me until the door closed behind her.

Feeling dazed by what had just happened, I simply stood, staring at the bathroom door for a few moments. Then I came to my senses and had just started to dress, when the girl returned, bringing a friend with her. I only had my underwear on at this point, a pair of tight-fitting jockey shorts that left little to the imagination. The two girls looked at me before walking across to use the sinks. They chattered away happily in a language I didn't understand, casting frequent glances in my direction as I finished dressing. I could only imagine what they were talking about, but it seemed to amuse them.

Unfortunately, it seemed "Oops" and "Sorry" were about the extent of the first girl's English, so I never did get to find out exactly what she thought of the situation. Personally I was turned on by it, but also mortified, an exhilarating mix of conflicting emotions that I masturbated to later, as soon as I got the chance. I felt a fresh burst of embarrassment whenever I bumped into those two girls during the rest of my stay at the hostel. We would smile knowingly at each other, but the language barrier meant we never had much more interaction than that.

[Robert Brooks]

'...When it did, the humiliation was real! No acting required!

I stayed in several crappy youth hostels during my younger, backpacking days...'

Fantastic story! I love how you sort of wanted it to happen, and were turned on by the experience, but also genuinely mortified!
Great that she and her friend also saw you in your underwear, which would have been embarrassing enough in its own right

You didn't tell us how old you were at the time? Just that the hostel was for teens/early twenties.

[BareB4U]

Fantastic story! I love how you sort of wanted it to happen, and were turned on by the experience, but also genuinely mortified!
Great that she and her friend also saw you in your underwear, which would have been embarrassing enough in its own right

You didn't tell us how old you were at the time? Just that the hostel was for teens/early twenties.

Thanks! I've been meaning to post this one for a long time, as it was one of the main real life experiences that seriously fuelled my cfnm kink.

The underwear moment wasn't anywhere near as embarrassing as being caught naked, but yes, quite awkward nonetheless. I don't know whether the first girl was hoping she and her friend would catch me still exposed or whether she thought she'd given me enough time to make myself decent. They still didn't bother to knock, which makes me think probably the former?

I was into my twenties at the time, the girls were a little younger than me, maybe still very late teens.

[edithdick]

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[Loki Room]

When I was a teenager I realised I was an exhibitionist, with a particular interest in ENM. My biggest fantasies involved being walked in on, whether it was changing, showering, or just being naked, I wanted someone to see me naked when I wasn’t expecting it. Unfortunately there wasn’t much chance of that happening organically, so I had to engineer a situation. I didn’t mind being seen by a girl or a boy, both had the potential of being embarrassing which was all I wanted, though I thought it would be much more embarrassing for a girl to see me naked

My parents had a pool and we would often invite over friends and family to swim. I had a bathroom connected to my bedroom, so I would let my friends get changed into their swimwear in there. Usually I would wait for them to get changed, then go in and get changed after them. But when I developed my ENM fantasies, I decided to switch things up. My plan was, after spending time in the pool, to wait in my bedroom while whoever was visiting would get dried and dressed in the bathroom. Then I would strip off my swim shorts and stand facing the bathroom door. Now all I had to do was wait until they left the bathroom, then pretend I was changing too and wasn’t expecting them to come out so soon. I would also pretend to dry my hair, and keep a towel over my face so they could get a good look at me without the fear of being caught staring.

When I was around 13 I decided to test my plan on a male friend, but my hope was to one day try it on a girl. The first time went fairly well, when he stepped out of the bathroom I waited a second, then let the towel on my head fall backwards so I didn’t have anything to cover myself with. I remember his wide eyes as he got an unobstructed view of my private parts. We had been friends since kindergarten but he’d never seen me naked until that point. He apologised and chuckled at the awkwardness before slinking back into the bathroom until I’d got dressed. It wasn’t the extreme embarrassing moment I was hoping for but I do remember masterbating to the memory that night.

I enacted my plan on a few more male friends and cousins, but unfortunately, I never actually got a girl involved. I was just too nervous about what could happen, I thought they might see through my act and tell everyone I knew I was a flasher. Also, as a boy, I would rarely have over just one girl to use our pool. Girls would only come over if there was a large gathering, and I really needed it to be just me and one other person. I did occasionally have a girl cousin over, but I was still too nervous about her seeing through my act

I think I was seen by around five boys through this method, that first boy saw me naked so many times after that I’m sure he realised I was getting off to it, but we never talked about it. My best experience I got out of this plan was when I did it to a family friend. He was a year younger than me and a really annoying kid, he would only come over because our parents are friends, but I figured I could use him in a ENM experience . Everything went to plan, he stepped out of the bathroom and before I had even taken the towel off my head, I could hear laughter.

I dropped the towel and saw him staring, pointing, and laughing at my penis. I covered myself with my hands, now I felt genuinely embarrassed, which only filled me with adrenaline. I managed to ask why he was laughing so much and he told me it’s because I was so hairy down there. It got so humiliating that I started developing a boner so I had to quickly get dressed. He watched me the whole time.

In retrospect I don’t think I was any more hairy than other boys my age, but he was younger than me, and as I would later learn, he was totally hairless down there. So I probably looked like a Neanderthal to him