Girls in boys locker room
Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2025 9:05 pm
Given the discussion on the other board about whether "true stories" in this section should actually be "true," I'll share this one, which to the best of my recollection (aside from names, etc.) is accurate. That said, memory is funny.
As a high school freshman (age 14-15) I was on a sports team at the school. I was a relatively quiet kid at that age, and mostly kept to myself. I hadn't started dating at all yet. Girls weren't much of an interest. I had crushes, but I didn't really act on them and I was okay to leave it at that. I just provide that as background on my experience with girls. Other guy friends of mine had been dating and had a variety of sexual experiences already. But that wasn't for me yet. Suffice it to say, no girl my age had ever seen me naked.
For the sports team, there were two girls who were "managers" of the team and were involved in keeping stats and other activities. I heard a rumor from a friend that part of their job was to hand out towels to the guys after we would emerge from the shower. When I heard that, I kind of freaked out on the inside, but it was too late. I had signed up for the sport, and that was that. Plus, I thought maybe the person who told me that didn't know what he was talking about.
Of course after our first practice after school one day, we hit the showers. And as each of the guys walked out, this girl (we'll call her Lisa) was standing there handing out towels. To her credit, she didn't make much of a deal out of it. It was just something she was supposed to do. But my god, was I nervous and embarrassed. I remember feeling like I was shaking so bad the first few times I came out of the shower that I thought I might fall over! I would always be very careful to cover my front as I approached her, and I'd put the towel around myself as soon as I walked away, to (hopefully) ensure she couldn't see anything from behind. I was also petrified that I might become unexpectedly aroused in the shower (which would have been embarrassing, girls present or not). I don't think that ever really happened, but to be honest, I've "imagined" the situation so many times since then that it may have. Fantasy and memory don't always mix so well. In any case, I survived. I'm sure she saw something at some time. Just the fact that she was looking at me as I was wet and naked, approaching her and holding my hand out to get the towel was something that was highly embarrassing for me.
Fortunately, she was older than me, and aside from the sport, I never really saw her around the school or interacted with her. But to be in that situation at that age was quite interesting and defining for me.
As a high school freshman (age 14-15) I was on a sports team at the school. I was a relatively quiet kid at that age, and mostly kept to myself. I hadn't started dating at all yet. Girls weren't much of an interest. I had crushes, but I didn't really act on them and I was okay to leave it at that. I just provide that as background on my experience with girls. Other guy friends of mine had been dating and had a variety of sexual experiences already. But that wasn't for me yet. Suffice it to say, no girl my age had ever seen me naked.
For the sports team, there were two girls who were "managers" of the team and were involved in keeping stats and other activities. I heard a rumor from a friend that part of their job was to hand out towels to the guys after we would emerge from the shower. When I heard that, I kind of freaked out on the inside, but it was too late. I had signed up for the sport, and that was that. Plus, I thought maybe the person who told me that didn't know what he was talking about.
Of course after our first practice after school one day, we hit the showers. And as each of the guys walked out, this girl (we'll call her Lisa) was standing there handing out towels. To her credit, she didn't make much of a deal out of it. It was just something she was supposed to do. But my god, was I nervous and embarrassed. I remember feeling like I was shaking so bad the first few times I came out of the shower that I thought I might fall over! I would always be very careful to cover my front as I approached her, and I'd put the towel around myself as soon as I walked away, to (hopefully) ensure she couldn't see anything from behind. I was also petrified that I might become unexpectedly aroused in the shower (which would have been embarrassing, girls present or not). I don't think that ever really happened, but to be honest, I've "imagined" the situation so many times since then that it may have. Fantasy and memory don't always mix so well. In any case, I survived. I'm sure she saw something at some time. Just the fact that she was looking at me as I was wet and naked, approaching her and holding my hand out to get the towel was something that was highly embarrassing for me.
Fortunately, she was older than me, and aside from the sport, I never really saw her around the school or interacted with her. But to be in that situation at that age was quite interesting and defining for me.
But really, I don't think there was any harassment, especially since we were freshmen and she was a Junior. That said, I could very well have been oblivious.
Because all these years, I felt safe in the feeling that she was just there doing her job. And now I'm looking back on it, realizing that she most likely saw me naked, probably from all angles. So that's kind of crazy. Man, was I naive!