I didn't feel abused; my grandparents were nudists and we live in Germany.frzutgghffg wrote: Thu Jan 08, 2026 7:57 pmIt feels like you got groomed. Thats not something your grandparents should‘ve told you! That‘s weird. You were a child, not something to be photographed like this and sexualized by your grandparents. Also, these pictures are cp, no matter how you look at it. And he took the pictures to sexualize and abuse you (yes, he abused you!). You might not think of him as an abuser, but you did not give consent and clearly didn’t want it.Laramaus wrote: Thu Jan 08, 2026 2:17 pm As a child, I often spent my school holidays with my grandparents and we often played naked in the garden. My grandpa sometimes took pictures of me. As I got older, I became embarrassed by it. My grandparents just told me not to be so shy and that I should be proud of my body. When we had his friends over, he showed them photos of me, and I wanted to disappear into the ground. It was so embarrassing.
Some people who were abused develop an „abuse kink“. I recommend you get some professional help.
Also, you should start hating your grandpa. I know that can be hard because he‘s family, but he doesn’t love you. He only loves your body.
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Why do you think he said „You need to be proud of your body“? especially as a child? It’s just weird and sexual.Laramaus wrote: Fri Jan 09, 2026 11:26 amI didn't feel abused; my grandparents were nudists and we live in Germany.frzutgghffg wrote: Thu Jan 08, 2026 7:57 pmIt feels like you got groomed. Thats not something your grandparents should‘ve told you! That‘s weird. You were a child, not something to be photographed like this and sexualized by your grandparents. Also, these pictures are cp, no matter how you look at it. And he took the pictures to sexualize and abuse you (yes, he abused you!). You might not think of him as an abuser, but you did not give consent and clearly didn’t want it.Laramaus wrote: Thu Jan 08, 2026 2:17 pm As a child, I often spent my school holidays with my grandparents and we often played naked in the garden. My grandpa sometimes took pictures of me. As I got older, I became embarrassed by it. My grandparents just told me not to be so shy and that I should be proud of my body. When we had his friends over, he showed them photos of me, and I wanted to disappear into the ground. It was so embarrassing.
Some people who were abused develop an „abuse kink“. I recommend you get some professional help.
Also, you should start hating your grandpa. I know that can be hard because he‘s family, but he doesn’t love you. He only loves your body.
Yk, you can have your opinions and obvious you love your grandpa. But in my opinion it‘s definitely abuse, since you were embarrassed about it and didn’t consent!
And if you go by the law of Germany, he also committed a crime!
(by the way, i‘m also from Germany. This whole „it‘s nudism“ argument doesn’t hold true because nudism is all about non-sexual nudity.)
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I just want you to know that you can be abused without knowing you got abused. It‘s actually the reason why so many rape cases stay unreported. People who get abused by family members often have this overwhelming love for their family members that prohibits them from recognizing it was abuse.Laramaus wrote: Fri Jan 09, 2026 11:26 amI didn't feel abused; my grandparents were nudists and we live in Germany.frzutgghffg wrote: Thu Jan 08, 2026 7:57 pmIt feels like you got groomed. Thats not something your grandparents should‘ve told you! That‘s weird. You were a child, not something to be photographed like this and sexualized by your grandparents. Also, these pictures are cp, no matter how you look at it. And he took the pictures to sexualize and abuse you (yes, he abused you!). You might not think of him as an abuser, but you did not give consent and clearly didn’t want it.Laramaus wrote: Thu Jan 08, 2026 2:17 pm As a child, I often spent my school holidays with my grandparents and we often played naked in the garden. My grandpa sometimes took pictures of me. As I got older, I became embarrassed by it. My grandparents just told me not to be so shy and that I should be proud of my body. When we had his friends over, he showed them photos of me, and I wanted to disappear into the ground. It was so embarrassing.
Some people who were abused develop an „abuse kink“. I recommend you get some professional help.
Also, you should start hating your grandpa. I know that can be hard because he‘s family, but he doesn’t love you. He only loves your body.
And remember: if it made you uncomfortable, it was abuse. Their justification for their actions doesn’t change it in any way!
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I'm sorry, but it feels like you were abused and you're trying to project it onto their situation.frzutgghffg wrote: Fri Jan 09, 2026 12:39 pmI just want you to know that you can be abused without knowing you got abused. It‘s actually the reason why so many rape cases stay unreported. People who get abused by family members often have this overwhelming love for their family members that prohibits them from recognizing it was abuse.Laramaus wrote: Fri Jan 09, 2026 11:26 amI didn't feel abused; my grandparents were nudists and we live in Germany.frzutgghffg wrote: Thu Jan 08, 2026 7:57 pm
It feels like you got groomed. Thats not something your grandparents should‘ve told you! That‘s weird. You were a child, not something to be photographed like this and sexualized by your grandparents. Also, these pictures are cp, no matter how you look at it. And he took the pictures to sexualize and abuse you (yes, he abused you!). You might not think of him as an abuser, but you did not give consent and clearly didn’t want it.
Some people who were abused develop an „abuse kink“. I recommend you get some professional help.
Also, you should start hating your grandpa. I know that can be hard because he‘s family, but he doesn’t love you. He only loves your body.
And remember: if it made you uncomfortable, it was abuse. Their justification for their actions doesn’t change it in any way!
I appreciate your concern, but I think we can let an adult make their own determination about whether It was abuse - I wasn't there, and neither were you.
My real incidents:
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You see it through the eyes of an adult. I think his grandparents took a picture of him innocently, as their grandson. He was naked. He could have gotten dressed, but he chose to be naked.
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I would suggest you try to balance your morals and lust.Freesub wrote: Sat Jan 10, 2026 12:53 amI'm sorry, but it feels like you were abused and you're trying to project it onto their situation.frzutgghffg wrote: Fri Jan 09, 2026 12:39 pmI just want you to know that you can be abused without knowing you got abused. It‘s actually the reason why so many rape cases stay unreported. People who get abused by family members often have this overwhelming love for their family members that prohibits them from recognizing it was abuse.Laramaus wrote: Fri Jan 09, 2026 11:26 am
I didn't feel abused; my grandparents were nudists and we live in Germany.
And remember: if it made you uncomfortable, it was abuse. Their justification for their actions doesn’t change it in any way!
I appreciate your concern, but I think we can let an adult make their own determination about whether It was abuse - I wasn't there, and neither were you.
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Not sure what you even mean by that, but if you're here just to accuse people of things, why are you even here?frzutgghffg wrote: Sun Jan 11, 2026 6:07 pmI would suggest you try to balance your morals and lust.Freesub wrote: Sat Jan 10, 2026 12:53 amI'm sorry, but it feels like you were abused and you're trying to project it onto their situation.frzutgghffg wrote: Fri Jan 09, 2026 12:39 pm
I just want you to know that you can be abused without knowing you got abused. It‘s actually the reason why so many rape cases stay unreported. People who get abused by family members often have this overwhelming love for their family members that prohibits them from recognizing it was abuse.
And remember: if it made you uncomfortable, it was abuse. Their justification for their actions doesn’t change it in any way!
I appreciate your concern, but I think we can let an adult make their own determination about whether It was abuse - I wasn't there, and neither were you.
My real incidents:
viewtopic.php?t=3737
viewtopic.php?t=3840
viewtopic.php?t=3843
viewtopic.php?t=4002
viewtopic.php?t=3737
viewtopic.php?t=3840
viewtopic.php?t=3843
viewtopic.php?t=4002
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