Chance I didn't take

[Yarua]

So it's an incident that I have a clear picture but kinda hazy memory on details.

So I was at my cousins, They were two boys. Around 2 years younger than me. So about 8 and 10 something. They were always like.. not dumb but too childish and uncaring about things. They were from a more small town area but quite wealthy. They had huge 3 story building just for themselves.

I remember on 1st floor, one time before bath both of them were playing by sliding across the floor outside of the main bathroom. It was like a marble floor with washing machine, some home decor plants. Well, they were completely naked. Like i remember the older one being Slightly more fatty and younger one quite skinny. They were sliding across the floor without any care. While we were visiting, so they have their aunt and 2 female cousins, Just watching there butts and bare bodies as they slide across the hall.

It got embarrassing for me, when my mom genuinely suggested to me if i wanted to join them. In actual not teasing just straight up, "if you want, you can play too?".
I am like "no."

But I do still think about it, if i could have... Then how will I have looked, it would have been fun... Of course, Not enough to sacrifice all of my dignity... I was older than them, and I am a girl. Not that i remember seeing their front, they looked so natural. My main memory is just the shock of "wait you think I can .."

I do still think about it, the if... Or maybe....
Would I have done it? Probably no... but still it's not like fully opposed to it. I could imagine, if i actually did it... It feels like weirdly ticklish kinda feeling in me.
Oh how would they have react?
how long would have stayed so?
What will the elders day?

Does anyone else had a situation where they didn't join?
(Also it's my first post here, I apologise if it's not technically enf or enm)

[NudeBaG]

So it's an incident that I have a clear picture but kinda hazy memory on details.

So I was at my cousins, They were two boys. Around 2 years younger than me. So about 8 and 10 something. They were always like.. not dumb but too childish and uncaring about things. They were from a more small town area but quite wealthy. They had huge 3 story building just for themselves.

I remember on 1st floor, one time before bath both of them were playing by sliding across the floor outside of the main bathroom. It was like a marble floor with washing machine, some home decor plants. Well, they were completely naked. Like i remember the older one being Slightly more fatty and younger one quite skinny. They were sliding across the floor without any care. While we were visiting, so they have their aunt and 2 female cousins, Just watching there butts and bare bodies as they slide across the hall.

It got embarrassing for me, when my mom genuinely suggested to me if i wanted to join them. In actual not teasing just straight up, "if you want, you can play too?".
I am like "no."

But I do still think about it, if i could have... Then how will I have looked, it would have been fun... Of course, Not enough to sacrifice all of my dignity... I was older than them, and I am a girl. Not that i remember seeing their front, they looked so natural. My main memory is just the shock of "wait you think I can .."

I do still think about it, the if... Or maybe....
Would I have done it? Probably no... but still it's not like fully opposed to it. I could imagine, if i actually did it... It feels like weirdly ticklish kinda feeling in me.
Oh how would they have react?
how long would have stayed so?
What will the elders day?

Does anyone else had a situation where they didn't join?
(Also it's my first post here, I apologise if it's not technically enf or enm)

So you were around 12 or 13?
How old was your female cousin?
That ticklish feeling is normal, I’d say.
It’s strange that your mom suggested it though, given your age.
Maybe she thought you/they were too young to care?
But the idea excited you?

[skai0]

So it's an incident that I have a clear picture but kinda hazy memory on details.

So I was at my cousins, They were two boys. Around 2 years younger than me. So about 8 and 10 something. They were always like.. not dumb but too childish and uncaring about things. They were from a more small town area but quite wealthy. They had huge 3 story building just for themselves.

I remember on 1st floor, one time before bath both of them were playing by sliding across the floor outside of the main bathroom. It was like a marble floor with washing machine, some home decor plants. Well, they were completely naked. Like i remember the older one being Slightly more fatty and younger one quite skinny. They were sliding across the floor without any care. While we were visiting, so they have their aunt and 2 female cousins, Just watching there butts and bare bodies as they slide across the hall.

It got embarrassing for me, when my mom genuinely suggested to me if i wanted to join them. In actual not teasing just straight up, "if you want, you can play too?".
I am like "no."

But I do still think about it, if i could have... Then how will I have looked, it would have been fun... Of course, Not enough to sacrifice all of my dignity... I was older than them, and I am a girl. Not that i remember seeing their front, they looked so natural. My main memory is just the shock of "wait you think I can .."

I do still think about it, the if... Or maybe....
Would I have done it? Probably no... but still it's not like fully opposed to it. I could imagine, if i actually did it... It feels like weirdly ticklish kinda feeling in me.
Oh how would they have react?
how long would have stayed so?
What will the elders day?

Does anyone else had a situation where they didn't join?
(Also it's my first post here, I apologise if it's not technically enf or enm)

Well, if you regret it maybe you should make amends. Maybe you should attempt a naked dare now.

[CinnabarSunset]

Point of clarification: they were your cousins, so when you talk about "their aunt and 2 female cousins", that means you, your sister, and your mom, right?

When I got to the part about your mom saying you could join them, I guessed you were male, and that this was a "boys don't need modesty" type of situation. But given that you were a girl, perhaps this was more of a "kids don't need modesty" situation? Were you still relatively undeveloped and pre-pubescent at that time?

Either way, it's striking that your mom said it in a serious way. If you hadn't specified, I would've assumed she was just saying it in a teasing way. I wonder whether she caught you staring a bit much, and thought you were staring because it looked like fun.

Does anyone else had a situation where they didn't join?

Nothing quite like your story, but I do remember a time when I was young (maybe about the same age you were in this story) and visited the beach with my mom and siblings. The beach was sparsely populated that day, with just another mom and her son near us. The boy was probably a little younger than your cousins, and he was going about his business stark naked. (That wasn't a normal thing in my part of the world, by the way.)

My brother, sister, and I built sand castles with him for a bit. Not a word was spoken by any of us about his nudity, but my siblings and I definitely thought it was a curious thing. And although there was no verbalized suggestion to get naked myself, of course I thought about it in a "what if" sort of way.

[NudeBaG]

G here.
Oh jeez.
I just had a conversation with my cousin about a beach trip we took with our extended family.
I was 9 at the time, and he was about 12.
One of our aunts had joked about skinny dipping, and we’d discussed it briefly.
It was night, and it was me, him and our aunt who suggested skinny dipping, and she pretty much said to do it, but not go too deep.
I didn’t do anything, but he pulled off his trunks and ran into the water in the dark!
My aunt had a flashlight and picked up his trunks before shining the light in him and yelling at him to come back, saying that she was kidding.
I watched as he came back and had to put his trunks back on.

[Jonjon2]

Its interesting looking at the different cultures and times. My recent posting on the 'Naked for her amusement' thread showed a very different experience which wasn't seen as that unusual although the UK was not as 'permissive' as other parts of Europe. At the time my Aunt and Uncle had had several holidays in the former Yugoslavia where many of the beaches were naturist and so that was their experience, certainly seeing nothing wrong with little boys being naked on the beach when changing or leaving the beach.

[Yarua]

So it's an incident that I have a clear picture but kinda hazy memory on details.

So I was at my cousins, They were two boys. Around 2 years younger than me. So about 8 and 10 something. They were always like.. not dumb but too childish and uncaring about things. They were from a more small town area but quite wealthy. They had huge 3 story building just for themselves.

I remember on 1st floor, one time before bath both of them were playing by sliding across the floor outside of the main bathroom. It was like a marble floor with washing machine, some home decor plants. Well, they were completely naked. Like i remember the older one being Slightly more fatty and younger one quite skinny. They were sliding across the floor without any care. While we were visiting, so they have their aunt and 2 female cousins, Just watching there butts and bare bodies as they slide across the hall.

It got embarrassing for me, when my mom genuinely suggested to me if i wanted to join them. In actual not teasing just straight up, "if you want, you can play too?".
I am like "no."

But I do still think about it, if i could have... Then how will I have looked, it would have been fun... Of course, Not enough to sacrifice all of my dignity... I was older than them, and I am a girl. Not that i remember seeing their front, they looked so natural. My main memory is just the shock of "wait you think I can .."

I do still think about it, the if... Or maybe....
Would I have done it? Probably no... but still it's not like fully opposed to it. I could imagine, if i actually did it... It feels like weirdly ticklish kinda feeling in me.
Oh how would they have react?
how long would have stayed so?
What will the elders day?

Does anyone else had a situation where they didn't join?
(Also it's my first post here, I apologise if it's not technically enf or enm)

So you were around 12 or 13?
How old was your female cousin?
That ticklish feeling is normal, I’d say.
It’s strange that your mom suggested it though, given your age.
Maybe she thought you/they were too young to care?
But the idea excited you?
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(Sorry for late reply, I lacked permissions for reply)
So it was me(12) and my older sister(14).
2 Male cousins who were 8 and 10.

I do wonder myself why my mom suggested it, I have always been kept dressed as kid, almost always. But my mom did bath me till I was 8 something. During which i was never embarrassed. Other thing probably is that both of those boys were quite... Simple and just happy to be around. They did like me a lot, i remember them calling if i am gonna come again, or what I am doing while summer break. Maybe she thought since it's an half closed area it could be fun for all three of us.

It's just kinda hard to explain, not like excitement as stimulation, but kinda what if. If I had done it, what could have happen, would we share bathes later? What if other cousins/friends found out? If I could, should I..?

[Yarua]

So it's an incident that I have a clear picture but kinda hazy memory on details.

So I was at my cousins, They were two boys. Around 2 years younger than me. So about 8 and 10 something. They were always like.. not dumb but too childish and uncaring about things. They were from a more small town area but quite wealthy. They had huge 3 story building just for themselves.

I remember on 1st floor, one time before bath both of them were playing by sliding across the floor outside of the main bathroom. It was like a marble floor with washing machine, some home decor plants. Well, they were completely naked. Like i remember the older one being Slightly more fatty and younger one quite skinny. They were sliding across the floor without any care. While we were visiting, so they have their aunt and 2 female cousins, Just watching there butts and bare bodies as they slide across the hall.

It got embarrassing for me, when my mom genuinely suggested to me if i wanted to join them. In actual not teasing just straight up, "if you want, you can play too?".
I am like "no."

But I do still think about it, if i could have... Then how will I have looked, it would have been fun... Of course, Not enough to sacrifice all of my dignity... I was older than them, and I am a girl. Not that i remember seeing their front, they looked so natural. My main memory is just the shock of "wait you think I can .."

I do still think about it, the if... Or maybe....
Would I have done it? Probably no... but still it's not like fully opposed to it. I could imagine, if i actually did it... It feels like weirdly ticklish kinda feeling in me.
Oh how would they have react?
how long would have stayed so?
What will the elders day?

Does anyone else had a situation where they didn't join?
(Also it's my first post here, I apologise if it's not technically enf or enm)

Well, if you regret it maybe you should make amends. Maybe you should attempt a naked dare now.

Dares are something I have attempted before, but never something feels like hit you on spot with a casual suggestion, so not expecting that left you questioning. As it's always more of a challenge that you are prepared will come at you.

Also I have done almost personal sort of dares with just challenging myself, among friends and one time cousin. Nothing extreme but I can share if anyone is interested.

[Yarua]

Point of clarification: they were your cousins, so when you talk about "their aunt and 2 female cousins", that means you, your sister, and your mom, right?

When I got to the part about your mom saying you could join them, I guessed you were male, and that this was a "boys don't need modesty" type of situation. But given that you were a girl, perhaps this was more of a "kids don't need modesty" situation? Were you still relatively undeveloped and pre-pubescent at that time?

Either way, it's striking that your mom said it in a serious way. If you hadn't specified, I would've assumed she was just saying it in a teasing way. I wonder whether she caught you staring a bit much, and thought you were staring because it looked like fun.

Does anyone else had a situation where they didn't join?

Nothing quite like your story, but I do remember a time when I was young (maybe about the same age you were in this story) and visited the beach with my mom and siblings. The beach was sparsely populated that day, with just another mom and her son near us. The boy was probably a little younger than your cousins, and he was going about his business stark naked. (That wasn't a normal thing in my part of the world, by the way.)

My brother, sister, and I built sand castles with him for a bit. Not a word was spoken by any of us about his nudity, but my siblings and I definitely thought it was a curious thing. And although there was no verbalized suggestion to get naked myself, of course I thought about it in a "what if" sort of way.

Oh my... I actually like, woah was I staring too much. I think i genuinely was. I was there with cousins before, when they were dressed, I stayed with them throughout... Omg was that why... Ofc in my mind I was thinking that looks like fun, but more like watching a someone do a 360 backflip. Did she read my mind or my face...

What about you, In that moment if you did actually do it,
Do you think about it as a chance you didn't take? Think about questions like-

how would your rest of day go if you did it?
Anything you would have liked to try afterwards?
If you would have done it, would you suggest your sister to follow the suit? Or if she did it first?

[Yarua]

Its interesting looking at the different cultures and times. My recent posting on the 'Naked for her amusement' thread showed a very different experience which wasn't seen as that unusual although the UK was not as 'permissive' as other parts of Europe. At the time my Aunt and Uncle had had several holidays in the former Yugoslavia where many of the beaches were naturist and so that was their experience, certainly seeing nothing wrong with little boys being naked on the beach when changing or leaving the beach.

I too have seen it with boys going carefree, i remember once seeing my 10 year old neighbor boy, just standing beside his pool without anything. I just glimpsed by the window. Often among kids too boys get to play naked, especially at beach or when they can in safe spaces.

But It's quite common in around me for the other side. As I have seen my girl half of the family semi-naked or at times, more than that. I remember when one of my distant aunt was giving bath to her daughter around 6-7 years old, she confirmed it was only me and opened the door, and we were just talking about upcoming events. I have changed at beaches with my friends where was no stall so we hold towels in turns. My friend flash her breasts to me before. It would never happen if any boys were present, or atleast if the boy is older than 6-7 years old.