Nurse unexpectedly orders me to take off my pants and goes further

[quicktime95]

I was embarrassed about revealing to my regular physician that my pelvic region feels kind of tight and uncomfortable. I went into a random walk-in clinic to see a different physician. The new physician was a pretty middle aged women. I told her my pelvic/butt hole issue, she asked me if I was 18, which seemed unnecessary since it wasn't a sexual act, and I thought she would prescribe a prescription or recommend me to a specialist. She orders me to lay down, pulls down my pants, and without warning jams her unlubed fingers in there . For a second she aggressive jams the tip of her unlubed finger in there, then, removes it without any more physical checking. Then recommends me to a specialist.

The pantsing and second long unlubed fingering seemed kind of pointless, no pun intended . She could have recommended me to the therapist, or just look at the my butthole rather than poke it. Do you think she just wanted me to take my pants off, finger my butt to embarrass me then throw me out? I've had a few instances where I where another doctor would rub my abdomen somewhat sexually just to see me squirm, even though when I youtubed the procedure none of them did that. And, another time in Thailand the massage therapist would grope my upper legs and balls so I squirm next to my parents. Are they trying to embarrass me?

[NickTwisp]

She probably suspected that your pelvic discomfort might have been due to a fecal impaction. However, the way she went about it was unprofessional.