Girls in boys locker room

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When and where did this happen?

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It was at a public high school in a wealthy suburb of a major American Midwest city. I'd rather not pinpoint it beyond that. Mostly white school. Maybe about 20 percent Black. Small Asian population there. Rather not say when specifically. Over 15 years ago. Why do you ask? Are you the girl???

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So in fantasy at the time, I was very excited about it. In reality at the time, I was nervous and embarrassed (not in a sexual way) about it. But yes. The variety of fantasies that I had about Lisa exposing me or looking at me? Wow. I could never document them all.

So I will say it again...please write these never ending fantasies down.

A boy on the Freshman team is shocked to find out a girl hands out towels after they shower. Every day that girl stands a little closer
to the entrance to the shower room. Every day the manager's body faces more toward the shower than the rows of lockers. OH SHIT...
she's gonna glance over and stare at me (when I'm shampooing my hair). NO, noooo...not a boner. Not now...

Yeah, I'd definitely like to document and share. The boner was the biggest fear. Never happened, thankfully. But there was a lot of anxiety and worring about that.

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It was at a public high school in a wealthy suburb of a major American Midwest city. I'd rather not pinpoint it beyond that. Mostly white school. Maybe about 20 percent Black. Small Asian population there. Rather not say when specifically. Over 15 years ago. Why do you ask? Are you the girl???

Just seemed like something that would have happened in another country or back in the 60s or 70s in USA. Not recently. Great story.

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It was at a public high school in a wealthy suburb of a major American Midwest city. I'd rather not pinpoint it beyond that. Mostly white school. Maybe about 20 percent Black. Small Asian population there. Rather not say when specifically. Over 15 years ago. Why do you ask? Are you the girl???

Just seemed like something that would have happened in another country or back in the 60s or 70s in USA. Not recently. Great story.

Yup. A bunch of upper-middle class and rich white kids in the heartland of the good old USA. And definitely after the 60s or 70s. I'm not that old!

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I could maybe see it happening when I was in elementary school. My father was a coach and had females managers but we were such a small school it probably wouldn't have lasted because word would have gotten out to parents. But in the late 80s and 90s I would have said no way would it have happened where I lived. A lot of privacy concerns happened in a 10 year stretch.

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I could maybe see it happening when I was in elementary school.

Okay. A lot to unpack there. When you were in elementary school, there were girl managers for your boys team? Were the girls peers of yours, or high school students. I can see where high school students makes sense. But for fourth grade girls to be in the locker room while fourth grade boys are changing, that sounds like a disaster for everyone involved.

My father was a coach and had females managers but we were such a small school it probably wouldn't have lasted because word would have gotten out to parents.

Wait... your father was a high school coach or an elementary school coach with female managers? And were the managers in the locker rooms?

But in the late 80s and 90s I would have said no way would it have happened where I lived. A lot of privacy concerns happened in a 10 year stretch.

Well, I don't know what geographic area you were in. I bet on the coasts, things were probably more progressive and litigious, giving schools a number of reasons to crack down. But in the Midwest, I think there may have been more of an accepted feeling among everyone that "this is how we've always done it, and so we're going to keep doing it that way."

Looking back on it, yes, it's absolutely absurd that girls were in the boys locker room while we were showering and changing. But interestingly, I didn't see anything wrong with it. It's just I was embarrassed by the potential exposure. But I never was thinking, "Hey, this isn't right. These girl managers shouldn't be in here with us." We all just accepted it and really didn't think about it. So that part didn't bother me at all. I just didn't want to be exposed.

As NudeBaG mentioned above, it's not possible that the girls never took a peek. But honestly, I don't remember any funny business whatsoever. I'm pretty sure that wouldn't have been tolerated in either direction. And like I said, it helped for me that she was a junior and I was a freshman, because I never really interacted with her other than during practices and games. Had she been a peer or friend, that would have been VERY awkward for me. (And that was actually one of my fears/fantasies. I'd imagine various girls in there who I knew very well, who were more free with their teasing. Like if my crush came into the locker room and said she was subbing for Lisa. That's one I could write up for sure.)

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Sorry I wasn't clear at all. Lol. I am from a Midwest small town. The elementary school and high school are basically attached to each other. So basically one school, really small. My father was a coach in high school sports and a couple of high school girls were the managers of the wrestling team. I think they might have dated a couple of the guys on the team so that is why they were managers. I know they saw a lot but never were in the locker room during showers. One time they got to witness some of the guys checking their weight in old school jock straps.

I believe the girls in your story were 100% checking out the guys. They might have been embarrassed the first time but after that I bet they loved it.

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I believe the girls in your story were 100% checking out the guys. They might have been embarrassed the first time but after that I bet they loved it.

Okay. Well, now I'm super embarrassed in retrospect, because I just figured she was looking the other way. So now it brings the whole thing up again and to a new level.

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I mean I might be wrong but I 100% bet they were loving it and stealing glances but not trying to look obvious and gawk. Did you guys never talk about it? Or no one ever talked to the girls about it ?

And was this something the coaches and school knew about ? Or was it just a prank the upper class pulled on the freshman ,